Sorting Laundry

Having "guy talk" with my friends, I have come to the conclusion that females will pass by that diamond in the rough because he doesn't have all of the criteria that are on her laundry list. We always complain that chivalry is dead, but we only say that because the guys we are currently talking or have talked to don't respect us enough to walk us to door, open the car door, give up his seat on the bus, or sincerely care  if we have made it home safely. Today on the bus, this boy was willing to give up his seat to a girl, but she chuckled and declined his offer and gave the excuse that if she sat down she would fall asleep. It's this feminist attitude that has caused over 50% of women to be successful and single.

With the radio stations constantly playing songs like Boosie's I.N.D.E.P.E.D.E.N.T., Jamie Foxx's She Got Her Own, Pussycat Dolls I Don't Need A Man, and Destiny's Child Independent Women, we as females are constantly "empowered" to be independent because we don't need anyone else, especially not a man in our life. Although we blast these lyrics on our Ipod, we still have a sense of emptiness that can only be filled by a man. Even with this void, we still have a laundry list with unobtainable requirements that only Jesus can possess.

Be aware that there is a difference between standards and holding on to every aspect of the laundry list that has mostly shallow criterion. Look on VH1's hit show What Chilli Wants, we will have to have ten seasons just for her to find what she wants. I understand the list of wants (laundry list) can be extremely long, but it's time to sort through the laundry to know what you need (standards). So, ladies you may not date that 6'3" 200 lbs. football physique kind of guy, but you may have to give that intellectual guy from your Chemistry class a try because his charm and respect is amazing.